Tomorrow, I will have made it to 30 weeks. There’s something that feels nice and final about being in the 30s finally. 30 weeks is solidly third trimester. 30 weeks means I’m on the downhill slope. 30 weeks means I’ve only got 10 weeks left!
I had an appointment with the midwives today, and I got the opportunity to meet midwife #3. I had met midwives #1 and #2 several times, but this was my first chance to meet midwife #3. I really liked her.
For the most part, the appointment went as they usually do. I weighed in (172.5 lbs) and then I got my urine dipped. My numbers are still looking a little funky in my urine, but both midwives #2 and #3 said that because I had just eaten a bagel and had some juice for my Floradix, it wasn’t outside the norm. It was just my body processing the sugars and carbs from the bagel and juice. Midwife #2, who is a hyperemesis gravidarum survivor, said that her numbers were strange her entire pregnancy. The HG just messes up your body for a long time.
Then midwife #3 measured me and listened to the baby’s heartbeat. Everything is measuring right on target for 30 weeks. She also felt around on my belly to see if she could tell how the baby is positioned in there. As it turns out, she’s currently laying sideways. This would account for the increased pain I’m having in my pelvic bones and sciatic nerve. Her feet are sticking out to my right, and her head is over on my left. Midwife #3 explained that she is probably in the process of turning herself head down, and while there is plenty of room and time for her to go back and forth a few times, it’s likely that she’ll settle in head down and just stay that way.
I hope she finishes her acrobatics soon! I am not loving this side-lying position! I swear I can feel her pointy little toes and toenails digging into the side of my uterus! Ouch!
The pain in my pelvis really is pretty bad. It’s bad enough that it’s been keeping me up at night. It hurts to lift my legs and put my pants on. Most of the pain is right where the pubic bones meet in front, but last night my whole sciatic nerve was aching and burning. I asked for a referral to a chiropractor, so I’m going in to get adjusted and massaged this afternoon. I’m hoping that will help. Midwife #3 also suggested just a few cat/cow or pelvic rocks before bed. That should move the baby up off of my bones and help through the night.
Since I am nicely into my third trimester, we briefly took the opportunity to talk about birthing options. It’s so strange and refreshing to think that I don’t need to worry much about telling a nurse in the hospital what not to do to me or my child! I don’t need to gear up for any strong advocacy. Most of the things I want, like delayed cord clamping, are things that they do just as a part of their standard procedure.
I plan to do a full post on my birthing preferences to help readers who might be interested see the reasoning behind them, but for now, here are a couple of things that I mentioned to midwife #3:
- Delayed cord clamping
- No internal checks until I express a desire to push
- Allow me to birth the placenta on my own without assistance
- Low lights and quiet voices so I can focus on my hypnobabies techniques
- Prefer, when possible, for everyone to use the hypnobabies terminology to refer to my pressure waves, birthing time, etc
She was great about it. She listened, took notes, and generally did not make me feel silly for asking about this stuff. It’s just really cool that I don’t have to put in big bold letters anywhere NO EPISIOTOMIES!!! and just hope and pray that the doctor on call remembers to look at my birth plan.
It’s just so much more… peaceful with these midwives.
I’m not saying that to knock doctors. Not at all. My OB with the Grasshopper was wonderful! It was a great birth experience and he could not have been more supportive. And of course, my doctor from this pregnancy is, well… she’s awesome! The birth center and midwifery practice just has such a calm, quiet vibe. No beeping machines, no harsh lights, no weird smells, no people barging in and out. It’s just a completely peaceful and nurturing environment.
We also talked about birth kits and what to bring to the birth center. She gave me an order form for the birth kit (pads, some herbs, gloves, etc) and a list of other things to pack to bring with us. The birth kit needs to be ordered and in hand by 37 weeks, which is right around the corner. Pretty exciting!
And as a bonus, as I was making my next appointment, a brand new mom came out with her baby girl who was born just today in the very wee hours of the morning! She had wanted to lay still and sleep for a while there at the birth center, so instead of driving home in the middle of the night, they stayed. It was amazing to see how tiny and perfect that brand new baby was! I forgot just how small they actually are!
All in all, it was a great appointment. We’ve gotten past the anemia scare with the Floradix doing a wonderful job at bringing up my iron, and I’m doing great! You know. Aside from the HG. And today has been a 2 Zofran day. One before bed and one after breakfast. 10 more weeks. 10 more weeks.