Cricket had her tonsils out a few weeks ago. It was a stressful time for our family and things have been pretty crazy.
Thankfully, the surgery went well and she has bounced back quickly. Too quickly! Keeping a toddler quiet for two weeks has been difficult. We’ve played lots of games, colored lots of pictures, and watched way too many cartoons.
During this recovery period, I’ve discovered that I have lots to be thankful for. Our overnight hospital stay really drove that home.
At the start of our stay, I felt sorry for myself and for Cricket. How awful it was that my baby was having surgery. How hard for her and for us. I will admit that I spent a few hours wallowing a bit.
But the reality is this: Time in a Children’s Hospital puts things into perspective pretty quickly.
While Cricket slept, and I was alone with my thoughts, I thought about how lucky we were. A deep feeling of gratitude quickly overcame the self-pity I felt.
I’m thankful for so many things.
I’m thankful for a stellar medical team who took wonderful care of Cricket during her surgery and hospital stay.
I’m thankful for my family who came to be with us during the surgery. I’m thankful for my Mother-in-Law who stepped into my shoes at home and cared for my family and home while I focused on Cricket. And my Father-in-Law who played with the Grasshopper and helped her to feel special while her sister was getting so much attention. And my mom who was willing to drop everything to come help, but equally willing to let my Mother-in-Law step in to help, too.
I’m thankful for a circle of friends who shared with me their experiences, checked on us, and kept back the things they knew would frighten me.
I’m thankful that I have a job that allowed me to be with her the entire time.
Most of all, I am thankful that we all came home together, healthier than we started.